{"id":3599,"date":"2020-03-29T17:45:43","date_gmt":"2020-03-29T15:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/top10-meilleures-rencontres.com\/blog\/how-do-i-write-my-first-message\/"},"modified":"2020-04-02T02:48:58","modified_gmt":"2020-04-02T00:48:58","slug":"how-do-i-write-my-first-message","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/top10-meilleures-rencontres.com\/blog\/how-do-i-write-my-first-message\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I write my first message?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"row siteBtn blogBtn \"><button type=\"button\" class=\"btn btn-sm btn-info btn-elevate col-12 col-sm-6 offset-sm-3 kt-margin-t-20 kt-margin-b-20\">See the Best Dating Sites<\/button><\/a><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>The first message you send to someone who attracts you is an important step. It is indeed thanks to these few lines that you will be able to hold the person&rsquo;s attention<br \/>\nCoveted. Take your time, choose a time when you are relaxed and follow our advice.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2>Be interested, and show it!<\/h2>\n<p>For your first message to have the desired effect, it is important that the recipient feels that you are not contacting him\/her at random and that you are really interested in her\/him in particular.<br \/>\nMention the elements in his profile that attracted you. Perhaps it is a common interest or a shared vision of married life?<br \/>\nIt is also an opportunity to reveal yourself a little and to arouse his interest in return. Remember that a personalized message will have a much greater impact than a standard message.<br \/>\nYou can also ask him about one of his passions, why he likes it so much, for example. On the other hand, if you particularly liked his smile or his writings, you can compliment him\/her, without overdoing it and remaining sincere.<br \/>\nWhatever topicor or topics you highlight, it is important that your first message contains at least one or two questions, in order to get the other person to answer you. Promote open-ended questions so that a real exchange takes place and allows you to get to know it better.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2>Titille his curiosity, but be concise<\/h2>\n<p>You may well, with this first message, start talking about yourself, your interests, or your work. Just avoid overdoing it! If you go beyond two or three sentences, you won&rsquo;t make him want to know more about you.<br \/>\nFor your message to be a success it must above all be simple and concise, after all, this is only the beginning of many exchanges! Give time to get to know yourself, and don&rsquo;t be in too much of a hurry.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h2>Pay attention to the following<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Don&rsquo;t always wait for the other to take the first step<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Codes have now changed and women who take the lead are often rewarded. A study published in the New York Times shows that women who send the first message are 2.5 times more likely than men to receive a response. So ladies, don&rsquo;t hesitate and start a conversation with the bachelor or singles that attract you!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&rsquo;t be too direct<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is important that your first message is not inappropriate or inappropriate. Avoid heavy, undefeated or rude comments, or you&rsquo;ll see your efforts wiped out! 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It is indeed thanks to these few lines that you will be able to hold the person&rsquo;s attention Coveted. Take your time, choose a time when you are relaxed and follow our advice. 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